This is how you slowly lose her.

Forget the days important to her. Do not greet her on your anniversary, monthsary or on her birthday. Forget your plans together that has been set days, weeks or even months before. The set appointments and dates which she found time to write on her journal. She cancelled so many plans just for your date to push through, forget that. Forget the little things you ought to remember. Forget these things and make her feel as if she is not worth remembering.

Learn not to say sorry. 
Offend her and when she got mad, do not say sorry. Instead, be mad with her even more. Make her feel as if you do not care even if she’s hurt, broken or crying. Make her feel that you are full of pride and you would never step down for her. Scream at her at the top of your lungs and watch her shed tears as she sit on the side of the bed.

Remove from her the right.
The right to ask and question you where you are, what you are doing and who you are with. Once she started questioning, answer in a tone that’s powerful that will scare her and block her off from asking again. Make her feel as if she is not welcome to question anything. That she ought to just say yes to you all the time. That she ought to be just fine with everything.

Reject her.
When she’s trying to kiss you, shove her away. When she’s being sweet, brush her off. Make her feel like you are uninterested and that she’s unattractive enough for you. Make her feel as if you don’t want her. When you know that she needs you, make her feel as if she is alone. Do not give her back the love she’s been giving you. Do not appreciate her. Make her feel empty.

Disappoint her.
Lift her hope up. Promise her something that she really wants. Set her spirit up above the sky and make sure to crash her to the ground real hard. Real hard that she can’t even stand right back afterwards. Lie to her. Make her feel so broken and do not comfort her.

Do these continuously and you will slowly lose the most patient and loving girl you will ever meet. The girl who’s willing to sacrifice anything for your betterment. The girl who would choose to suffer for your sake. The girl who continuously try to find the good in all of your bad. The loyal girl who would turn down every guy wanting her all for you. And once she gave up, you will never have the chance to be with her again.


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Catherine is a 20-something BS Nutrition student of the University of the Philippines, but her heart screams for the art. She is a freelance creative and model, an artist and a writer, and an advocate of human rights and the environment.

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